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little-literature:

Miniature Books by Little Literature

little-literature:

Miniature Books by Little Literature

13 hours ago on July 29th, 2014 | J | 40,774 notes

"Should parents read their daughter’s texts or monitor her online activity for bad language and inappropriate content?"

etherealzephyr:

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Earlier today, I served as the “young woman’s voice” in a panel of local experts at a Girl Scouts speaking event. One question for the panel was something to the effect of, "Should parents read their daughter’s texts or monitor her online activity for bad language and inappropriate content?"

I was surprised when the first panelist answered the question as if it were about cyberbullying. The adult audience nodded sagely as she spoke about the importance of protecting children online.

I reached for the microphone next. I said, “As far as reading your child’s texts or logging into their social media profiles, I would say 99.9% of the time, do not do that.”

Looks of total shock answered me. I actually saw heads jerk back in surprise. Even some of my fellow panelists blinked.

Everyone stared as I explained that going behind a child’s back in such a way severs the bond of trust with the parent. When I said, “This is the most effective way to ensure that your child never tells you anything,” it was like I’d delivered a revelation.

It’s easy to talk about the disconnect between the old and the young, but I don’t think I’d ever been so slapped in the face by the reality of it. It was clear that for most of the parents I spoke to, the idea of such actions as a violation had never occurred to them at all.

It alarms me how quickly adults forget that children are people.

Apparently people are rediscovering this post somehow and I think that’s pretty cool! Having experienced similar violations of trust in my youth, this is an important issue to me, so I want to add my personal story:

Around age 13, I tried to express to my mother that I thought I might have clinical depression, and she snapped at me “not to joke about things like that.” I stopped telling my mother when I felt depressed.

Around age 15, I caught my mother reading my diary. She confessed that any time she saw me write in my diary, she would sneak into my room and read it, because I only wrote when I was upset. I stopped keeping a diary.

Around age 18, I had an emotional breakdown while on vacation because I didn’t want to go to college. I ended up seeing a therapist for - surprise surprise - depression.

Around age 21, I spoke on this panel with my mother in the audience, and afterwards I mentioned the diary incident to her with respect to this particular Q&A. Her eyes welled up, and she said, “You know I read those because I was worried you were depressed and going to hurt yourself, right?”

TL;DR: When you invade your child’s privacy, you communicate three things:

  1. You do not respect their rights as an individual.
  2. You do not trust them to navigate problems or seek help on their own.
  3. You probably haven’t been listening to them.

Information about almost every issue that you think you have to snoop for can probably be obtained by communicating with and listening to your child.

Part of me is really excited to see that the original post got 200 notes because holy crap 200 notes, and part of me is really saddened that something so negative has resonated with so many people.

17 hours ago on July 29th, 2014 | J | 7,592 notes

ssweet-dispositionn:

lilith-not-eve:

Marrying young is not the end of my freedom. It means I want to travel and see the world, but with her by my side. It means I still like drinking in bars and dancing in clubs, but stumbling home with her at 2am and eating pizza in our underwear. It means I know that I want to kiss those lips every morning, and every night before bed. If you see marriage as the end of your ‘freedom’, you’re doing it wrong.

Omg

1 day ago on July 28th, 2014 | J | 105,874 notes

spicyshimmy:

leonardmemeoy:

imagine spock discovering memes and then on the bridge bones says that he’s a stone-cold, green-blooded hobgoblin and spock just says “u mad bro”

"much illogic, doctor. such cranky"

"perhaps you would be appeased with an extra hour in the ball pit"

"need i remind you that the average vulcan is not a stone-cold, green-blooded hobgoblin? vulcan georg, who lives in a cave, is a statistical outlier and should not have been counted"

1 day ago on July 28th, 2014 | J | 1,697 notes

hippielust:

wearyourlabel:

Margaret Cho for Miss Representation (x)

THIS is so important to share. 

this is amazing

1 day ago on July 28th, 2014 | J | 68,154 notes

foodisnotanumber:

Reminders:

  • Recovery is always an option.
  • You are never “too sick” to recover.
  • You are never “not sick enough” to recover.
  • Recovery is hard, but it is worth it.
  • You have more strength than you could ever imagine.
  • You can get through this.
  • You can get better.
  • You are worth more than your mental illness.
1 day ago on July 28th, 2014 | J | 3,109 notes
ahsadler:

deerypoof:

Of all a deer’s senses, their eyesight is the worst. 

I don’t know what I was expecting but this was so much better than that

ahsadler:

deerypoof:

Of all a deer’s senses, their eyesight is the worst. 

I don’t know what I was expecting but this was so much better than that

1 day ago on July 28th, 2014 | J | 74,872 notes

missyslaylliott:

I don’t even get jealous of other girls anymore tbh i get inspíred #growingup

3 days ago on July 27th, 2014 | J | 10,067 notes

mugglebornheadcanon:

14. As a senior year prank, the 7th years charm the plates and goblets at the feast to start singing “Be our guest”

4 days ago on July 25th, 2014 | J | 2,440 notes
If you look at the fact that you have a roof over your head, food to eat, that you are young and beautiful and live in a peaceful land, then no, you have nothing to be sad about. But the fact is, we are not only a physical body, we have souls too, and sometimes our souls get sick. If you break a leg you don’t just say ‘I have no reason to have a broken leg’ and ignore it; you seek help. It’s the same when your soul gets hurt. Don’t apologize for being sad.
My doctor when I told her I had no reason to be sad (via hrive-ithiliel)
6 days ago on July 23rd, 2014 | J | 200,833 notes